The Stranger
- A few months
before I was born, my dad met a stranger who was new to our small
town. From the beginning Dad was fascinated with this enchanting
newcomer and soon invited him to live with our family. The stranger
was quickly accepted and was around to welcome me into the world
a few months later. As I grew up, I never questioned his place
in our family.
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- Mom taught me
to love the Word of God, and Dad taught me to obey it. But the
stranger was our storyteller. He could weave the most fascinating
tales. Adventures, mysteries, and comedies were daily conversations.
He could hold our whole family spellbound for hours each evening.
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- He was like
a friend to the whole family. He took Dad, my brother, and me
to our first Major League baseball game.
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- He was always
encouraging us to see the movies and he even made arrangements
to introduce us to several movie stars.
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- The stranger
was an incessant talker. Dad didn't seem to mind, but sometimes
Mom would quietly get up -- while the rest of us were enthralled
with one of his stories of far away places -- go to her room,
read her Bible and pray.
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- I wonder now
if she ever prayed for that the stranger would leave.
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- You see, my
Dad ruled our household with certain moral convictions, but this
stranger never felt an obligation to honor them. Profanity, for
example, was not allowed in our house -- not from us, from our
friends, or from adults.
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- Our longtime
visitor, however, used occasional four letter words that burned
my ears and made Dad squirm. To my knowledge the stranger was
never confronted.
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- My Dad was a
teetotaler who didn't permit alcohol in his home -- not even
for cooking. But the stranger felt like we needed exposure and
enlightened us to other way of life. He offered us beer and other
alcoholic beverages often. He made cigarettes look tasty, cigars
manly, and pipes distinguished.
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- He talked freely
about sex. His comments were sometimes blatant, sometimes suggestive,
and generally embarrassing. I know now that my early concepts
of the man/woman relationship were influenced by the stranger.
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- As I look back,
I believe it was by the grace of God that the stranger did not
influence us more. Time after time, he opposed the values of
our parents, yet he was seldom rebuked and never asked to leave.
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- More than thirty
years have passed since the stranger moved in with us, but if
I were to walk into my parent's home today, I would still see
him sitting there waiting for someone to listen to his stories
and watch him draw his pictures.
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- His name? We
always just called him...T.V.
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